How Men Attract Woman

Friday, February 5, 2010

Traits That Attract Women

Men are more attracted to physical traits but women are more attracted to personality traits. There’s an interesting statistic that tells us about traits that attract women. An experimental study by top dating experts found that 38% of women prefer nice guys, 15% prefer bad guys, and 34% prefer a blend of both.
Did you hear that last number? A good 1/3 of women don’t want guys who are 100% good or 100% bad. 34% want a guy who’s got a little good, and a little bad, in him. The good part in him makes him treat her well and shower her with affection. The bad part in him makes him exciting, dangerous, and powerful.
Nice guys can learn a few things from bastards. The reason many women shy away from guys who seem too nice is that they don’t want a guy who’ll be submissive, clingy, and dependent.
The bastard knows how to play a women’s heart like a violin. The nice guy on the other hand, often doesn’t make a girl feel much of anything. The nice guy engages in a nice, polite, intellectual conversation with a girl and she’s left with the impression that he’s a nice guy. Well, nice guys are just that, nice guys. How can we expect women to get excited by a guy who doesn’t ooze out passion and entrancement? Politeness is a good quality, but it isn’t a turn-on.
So what can you do to prove that you’re not a complete doormat (too nice of a guy) but also not a wild psychotic who’s going to land himself in jail? Here are a few tips.

Get Physical
By this I mean... Join a gym and get yourself in shape, she’ll assume that you’re the kind of guy who could protect her in a pinch.
Make Her Feel Safe
Doing the little things for her, like walking on the part of the sidewalk between her and the street, or keeping an eye open for anything potentially dangerous. Stand up for her immediately when anyone attacks her verbally or physically, she’ll learn to trust that you, indeed, have a bad guy within you ready to stand up for her and defend her if necessary. Be the guy who straps her in her seatbelt on the roller coaster, or who offers a hand so that she doesn’t trip. Trust is built upon these actions.
Play on Her Wild Side
Listen up, in order to be successful with beautiful women it takes the kind of attitude that isn’t afraid of risks. If you’re always concerned about being politically correct, perfectly polite, and the kind of gentleman she’d introduce to her parents, you’ll see girls slip through your fingers time and time again. Be a little outrageous. Flirt with her shamelessly. Let her know that you find her sexually attractive. Drop hints that will intrigue her. Say something risqué, and grin when her mouth drops. They may act shocked, even offended, but believe me they love it when you tease.
Develop a Winning Mental State of Mind
This can’t be emphasized enough because it's crucial to have a positive, confident attitude. Don’t confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence means having a freedom from doubt, a belief in yourself and your abilities. Arrogance on the other hand is when you’re full of overbearing pride and tend to look down on others as inferiors.
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Once you work on these traits that attract women. Such as working out, be her protector, stand up for yourself and develop that attitude that says you’ve got the ability to do whatever you want. You’ll attract women in no time!
2 Tips to Remember When You Get Noticed by Girls
1. Follow up. If you ask a woman to go home with you and she declines, she may not be rejecting you; she may just be one of those women who has a policy of not going home with a stranger. So make a follow-up offer. See if her friends are hungry, and suggest that you all go out to a 24-hour diner. Ask her if she turns back into a hideous hag at dawn and give her a piece of paper to write her phone number down on so she can prove she's real. The idea here is to suggest that you're interested in her rather than the prospect of getting somewhere with her.
2. Don't be afraid to look. Whether you're shy or embarrassed. You don't want to be caught staring. Staring will make her feel as though she's being stalked. You have no excuse not to catch an attractive woman's eye. Yeah, she may not think you're her type, but how will you know unless you risk it? You don't want to be staring at women, but glancing around and appreciating what you see isn't a crime.
PS. Have you heard about the 5 myths that prevent guys from becoming great lovers?
Michael J.

Monday, November 2, 2009

4 Body Language Basics To Attract Beautiful Women

What's worse than the inability to get that beautiful women you've had your eye on to go out with you? It's when she actually goes out with you only to say, "Thanks, but no thanks" to the idea of going on a second date.

Body language is very important if you ever wish to attract hotter woman. According to several studies done by privet firms and universities, more than 50% of your communication comes from your body language and what that means is… What you don’t say still says a lot. Less then 40% of your communication comes from what you do say.

What does this mean for you?

It is as important initially to pay careful attention to how you say things, how you stand and how you act than it is to what you say. And that’s just for starters!
Listen, you could have the best game in the world and have the ability to attract any woman. For example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lack obvious confidence, eye contact etc… You will merely crash and burn.

Honestly, body language is so important when it comes to attracting women.

Let's cover the basics and just to let you know, it gets better as we go to the advanced stuff but that’s beyond the scope of this article. If you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out this site at:
Attract Hotter Women

Body language basics 101:

1. Smile

You have to make females feel at ease, comfortable that you are a friendly, fun guy. Particularly when talking to her for the first time. Also, you should give her the impression that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works, in fact if you ever come across an “Ice Queen” and you can tell that she is about to give you the snuff, give her a big smile. She’ll most likely still give you the cold shoulder but your smile might warm her up for the second encounter.

Practice smiling at random people, you’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors this will open for you. Smiling works, just make sure it’s a genuine smile.

2. Eye contact

As you probably know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest. It makes you just like all the other guys who have drooled over her. So make eye contact. When breaking eye contact, look to the left, right or passed her. Anywhere but down. There is one exception however, if you are going to compliment her on what she’s wearing, just glance down and back up. Remember no staring. She might wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention because now you’ve sparked her curiosity.

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be daunting. 70% is good for eye contact while you’re talking this usually is comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a head case blink as you would naturally. If you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. People say that the eyes are the window into the soul. I think there is some truth to that.

3. Good posture

Most women really do prefer men with straight, upright posture. Good posture says to a woman… you are confident, healthy and might even have some class. It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about you. Not to mention the fact that it’s good for your back.
Get into the habit of having an upright posture.

4. Gesture with open palms

Studies of body language have shown that this is a good one to use in many circumstances…

Not only that, this gesture can be used when talking to a woman and trying to make a point that puts you in a positive light or when you’re defending yourself.

For example, a female suggests you might be a player. Talk while using your hands with open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.

It works very well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. If you want a woman to trust you, give her reason to think you are being straight with her, this is important.
This open palm gesture works best when combined with a smile. It’s effective.

Those are some basics of positive body language to attract hotter women, if you'd like to learn more, visit Tiffany Taylor's site: ==>How to Attract Women

Never before has a woman thrown out the rule book and exposed every last intimate secret about what it takes to attract women... And here she is, exposing her own thoughts and what exactly to say and do to improve your love life. In fact, Tiffany has been under increasing pressure from women who want this book taken out of circulation.

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