Does Your Confidence Fall to Pieces Around Beautiful Women?

If you're confident in your career ... confident on the sports field... and confident with your friends ... why can't you be confident with woman?

Let's face it. One of the scariest things about women is the fact that they're female. They're like an alien species to some guys.

So how do you feel confident around women, when you don't have a clue what makes them tick?

Focus on Your Similarities, Not Your Differences

Women, like you, are afraid of being rejected, hurt or alone. By relating to women on terms that you understand, you give women the impression that you truly see them at their deepest levels ... which is much more appealing than giving off the feeling that women leave you clueless!

The next time you see a woman who's spectacularly gorgeous, don't give into the temptation of thinking that she's a creature from Venus, without any of the same needs that mortals have. Nothing inherently makes her a higher-ranking being to you.

It's amazing how your perspective will change once you see the human being beneath the beautiful window dressing. You'll lose your fear of talking to her. You'll understand more intuitively how to associate with her. So, focus on what makes you alike rather than what makes you different.

Understand That They're Playing the Game Too

If you take women at face value, then you're going omit an entire level of communication that could give you valuable insights into what's really going on.

When women are in situations where they may be approached by men, they take on a completely different character. They know that their sexuality gives them an edge and they also know that being a challenge is more exciting than being easy. As a result, they act in artificial ways.

Women aren't going to help you out by making it easy for you to chat with them or become vivid physically. So don't take their behavior personally. Wherever possible, bring them out of the game-playing environment such as a bar or club and into an environment where they feel relaxed and less defensive. You may find that a woman's personality changes completely when she's not warding off men.

So remember, to a woman you're just another guy trying to get into her pants until you prove yourself otherwise. So don't get stressed if she's rude to you, it's not you personally she's reacting to but just your default status as a male.

Confidence is one of the most important traits that a man must have when it comes to attracting beautiful women. If you're struggling with achieving the results you want in life, whether it's in your career, in your social life or in your personal life - then look at what Supreme Self-Confidence can do for you.

4 Body Language Basics To Attract Beautiful Women

What's worse than the inability to get that beautiful women you've had your eye on to go out with you? It's when she actually goes out with you only to say, "Thanks, but no thanks" to the idea of going on a second date.

Body language is very important if you ever wish to attract hotter woman. According to several studies done by privet firms and universities, more than 50% of your communication comes from your body language and what that means is… What you don’t say still says a lot. Less then 40% of your communication comes from what you do say.

What does this mean for you?

It is as important initially to pay careful attention to how you say things, how you stand and how you act than it is to what you say. And that’s just for starters!
Listen, you could have the best game in the world and have the ability to attract any woman. For example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lack obvious confidence, eye contact etc… You will merely crash and burn.

Honestly, body language is so important when it comes to attracting women.

Let's cover the basics and just to let you know, it gets better as we go to the advanced stuff but that’s beyond the scope of this article. If you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out this site at:
Attract Hotter Women

Body language basics 101:

1. Smile

You have to make females feel at ease, comfortable that you are a friendly, fun guy. Particularly when talking to her for the first time. Also, you should give her the impression that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works, in fact if you ever come across an “Ice Queen” and you can tell that she is about to give you the snuff, give her a big smile. She’ll most likely still give you the cold shoulder but your smile might warm her up for the second encounter.

Practice smiling at random people, you’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors this will open for you. Smiling works, just make sure it’s a genuine smile.

2. Eye contact

As you probably know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest. It makes you just like all the other guys who have drooled over her. So make eye contact. When breaking eye contact, look to the left, right or passed her. Anywhere but down. There is one exception however, if you are going to compliment her on what she’s wearing, just glance down and back up. Remember no staring. She might wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention because now you’ve sparked her curiosity.

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be daunting. 70% is good for eye contact while you’re talking this usually is comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a head case blink as you would naturally. If you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. People say that the eyes are the window into the soul. I think there is some truth to that.

3. Good posture

Most women really do prefer men with straight, upright posture. Good posture says to a woman… you are confident, healthy and might even have some class. It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about you. Not to mention the fact that it’s good for your back.
Get into the habit of having an upright posture.

4. Gesture with open palms

Studies of body language have shown that this is a good one to use in many circumstances…

Not only that, this gesture can be used when talking to a woman and trying to make a point that puts you in a positive light or when you’re defending yourself.

For example, a female suggests you might be a player. Talk while using your hands with open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.

It works very well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. If you want a woman to trust you, give her reason to think you are being straight with her, this is important.
This open palm gesture works best when combined with a smile. It’s effective.

Those are some basics of positive body language to attract hotter women, if you'd like to learn more, visit Tiffany Taylor's site: ==>How to Attract Women

Never before has a woman thrown out the rule book and exposed every last intimate secret about what it takes to attract women... And here she is, exposing her own thoughts and what exactly to say and do to improve your love life. In fact, Tiffany has been under increasing pressure from women who want this book taken out of circulation.

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