If you're confident in your career ... confident on the sports field... and confident with your friends ... why can't you be confident with woman?
Let's face it. One of the scariest things about women is the fact that they're female. They're like an alien species to some guys.
So how do you feel confident around women, when you don't have a clue what makes them tick?
Focus on Your Similarities, Not Your Differences
Women, like you, are afraid of being rejected, hurt or alone. By relating to women on terms that you understand, you give women the impression that you truly see them at their deepest levels ... which is much more appealing than giving off the feeling that women leave you clueless!
The next time you see a woman who's spectacularly gorgeous, don't give into the temptation of thinking that she's a creature from Venus, without any of the same needs that mortals have. Nothing inherently makes her a higher-ranking being to you.
It's amazing how your perspective will change once you see the human being beneath the beautiful window dressing. You'll lose your fear of talking to her. You'll understand more intuitively how to associate with her. So, focus on what makes you alike rather than what makes you different.
Understand That They're Playing the Game Too
If you take women at face value, then you're going omit an entire level of communication that could give you valuable insights into what's really going on.
When women are in situations where they may be approached by men, they take on a completely different character. They know that their sexuality gives them an edge and they also know that being a challenge is more exciting than being easy. As a result, they act in artificial ways.
Women aren't going to help you out by making it easy for you to chat with them or become vivid physically. So don't take their behavior personally. Wherever possible, bring them out of the game-playing environment such as a bar or club and into an environment where they feel relaxed and less defensive. You may find that a woman's personality changes completely when she's not warding off men.
So remember, to a woman you're just another guy trying to get into her pants until you prove yourself otherwise. So don't get stressed if she's rude to you, it's not you personally she's reacting to but just your default status as a male.
Confidence is one of the most important traits that a man must have when it comes to attracting beautiful women. If you're struggling with achieving the results you want in life, whether it's in your career, in your social life or in your personal life - then look at what Supreme Self-Confidence can do for you.

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