Image by neuroticcamel via Flickr"I don't get it! I've a nice car. I'm accomplished. My A-list resume makes the next guy look ridiculous. I even wear the latest Armani! Why aren't women attracted to me? Why am I still alone?" If you're still alone, keep reading.Are you puzzled over the fact that seemingly ordinary dudes have incredible success in their dating lives? If so, maybe I can help you to unlock the secrets behind tapping into your innate masculinity that's just waiting to be let loose... keep reading.
The path to romanticism is littered with unrealized expectations and unanswered love. If you think you're alone in your loneliness, think again. There is enough pounding on dashboards out there to start a global orchestra of dreadful distress.
Hey, don't despair. Before you spin out of control, make use of the airbags fast. These ideas for attaining your particular goal should bring you back on track:
- Dress for the occasion at all times: The intention is not to wear that $2000 suit to the grocery store or the Rolex to walk the dog. What I mean by this is to dress decently each time you hit the streets. Dab on some cologne and remain neatly shaven. Dude, women are everywhere. If you dress with flash only at the bar or your friend's party, you're missing out on 90% of eligible women. Some of the best relationships are formed during chance encounters when least expected. Mark, a friend of mine reluctantly was helping an acquaintance move into a new apartment when he met a woman who is now his fiancé.
- Bedroom Eyes: When exploring new relationships with that sexy stranger intensify the eye contact. Lock deep into her pupils. Let the rest of the world disappear even as a swarm of foxes pass by. You will naturally thrill her with the attention as she experiences the growing attraction. Science has a term for this, the coital gaze. Make your eyes even sexier by enlarging your pupils. Dr. Hess concluded that dilated pupils are far more attractive to women after he presented hundreds of assorted pictures of men to test subjects. How can you get your pupils popping without smoking a jay or downing a pill? Simply gaze at the most alluring parts of her face and fill your mind with loving caring thoughts. Your pupils will naturally grow, giving you the quality of irresistible eyes.
- Visual Caress: Make your eyes do some facial moving as you chat. Keep your eyes present a bit on the nose, move across the eyes and rest at the lips. Take in her facial features as though you were admiring the Mona Lisa. She will find pleasure in the attention!
- Confection: Stumped at having nothing to say? Listen carefully for confection as you talk. These are unusual sweet words or phrases that she utters. When you hear the sympathetic awe... You're on to something and ask her to elaborate on it. Say "How do you feel about that?" Women love to be probed for their opinions and their feelings. Gently bring out her emotions with sensitive open-ended questions.
- The Adrenaline Charge: Men talk about facts like sales figures, percentages and boring technical stuff. Women are different. They delight in intuitive feeling talk such as who did what and why, how that special meal got them all giddy with overwhelming emotion and how their shopping excursions help them forget their biggest problems. Leverage this by steering clear of facts talk. Pick out emotionally charged subjects like reality TV or social issues and ask her how she particularly relates to them. You'll be her new confidant!
I know what you're thinking. It's all common sense! That's true, but ask yourself this... How many of you actually put this to practice? Be frank. Get out of the grandstands and be the man women love. Use your common sense!
