Did you hear that last number? A good 1/3 of women don’t want guys who are 100% good or 100% bad. 34% want a guy who’s got a little good, and a little bad, in him. The good part in him makes him treat her well and shower her with affection. The bad part in him makes him exciting, dangerous, and powerful.
Nice guys can learn a few things from bastards. The reason many women shy away from guys who seem too nice is that they don’t want a guy who’ll be submissive, clingy, and dependent.
The bastard knows how to play a women’s heart like a violin. The nice guy on the other hand, often doesn’t make a girl feel much of anything. The nice guy engages in a nice, polite, intellectual conversation with a girl and she’s left with the impression that he’s a nice guy. Well, nice guys are just that, nice guys. How can we expect women to get excited by a guy who doesn’t ooze out passion and entrancement? Politeness is a good quality, but it isn’t a turn-on.
So what can you do to prove that you’re not a complete doormat (too nice of a guy) but also not a wild psychotic who’s going to land himself in jail? Here are a few tips.
By this I mean... Join a gym and get yourself in shape, she’ll assume that you’re the kind of guy who could protect her in a pinch.
Make Her Feel Safe
Doing the little things for her, like walking on the part of the sidewalk between her and the street, or keeping an eye open for anything potentially dangerous. Stand up for her immediately when anyone attacks her verbally or physically, she’ll learn to trust that you, indeed, have a bad guy within you ready to stand up for her and defend her if necessary. Be the guy who straps her in her seatbelt on the roller coaster, or who offers a hand so that she doesn’t trip. Trust is built upon these actions.
Play on Her Wild Side
Listen up, in order to be successful with beautiful women it takes the kind of attitude that isn’t afraid of risks. If you’re always concerned about being politically correct, perfectly polite, and the kind of gentleman she’d introduce to her parents, you’ll see girls slip through your fingers time and time again. Be a little outrageous. Flirt with her shamelessly. Let her know that you find her sexually attractive. Drop hints that will intrigue her. Say something risqué, and grin when her mouth drops. They may act shocked, even offended, but believe me they love it when you tease.
Develop a Winning Mental State of Mind
This can’t be emphasized enough because it's crucial to have a positive, confident attitude. Don’t confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence means having a freedom from doubt, a belief in yourself and your abilities. Arrogance on the other hand is when you’re full of overbearing pride and tend to look down on others as inferiors.
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2 Tips to Remember When You Get Noticed by Girls
1. Follow up. If you ask a woman to go home with you and she declines, she may not be rejecting you; she may just be one of those women who has a policy of not going home with a stranger. So make a follow-up offer. See if her friends are hungry, and suggest that you all go out to a 24-hour diner. Ask her if she turns back into a hideous hag at dawn and give her a piece of paper to write her phone number down on so she can prove she's real. The idea here is to suggest that you're interested in her rather than the prospect of getting somewhere with her.
2. Don't be afraid to look. Whether you're shy or embarrassed. You don't want to be caught staring. Staring will make her feel as though she's being stalked. You have no excuse not to catch an attractive woman's eye. Yeah, she may not think you're her type, but how will you know unless you risk it? You don't want to be staring at women, but glancing around and appreciating what you see isn't a crime.
PS. Have you heard about the 5 myths that prevent guys from becoming great lovers?
Michael J.
